I knew it was coming.
Every three years, children with an IEP in the Oakland Unified School District have a major review of eligibility. Besides, Sam will be entering kindergarten (holy shit!) in the fall, and I figured the IEP they did for Sam when he was three would need to be updated.
I started laying the groundwork in September. I talked with his school district provided speech therapist and occupational therapist weekly about where they thought Sam would be placed. They both confidently told me that Sam should be placed in the inclusion program. I heard this from them over and over. Week after week.
As the open enrollment period neared, I started touring schools. I must have visited at least nine schools. I wanted to make sure I really understood what each of the nearby inclusion schools looked like. I even looked at a few schools that didn't have an inclusion program - as Sam was doing so well.
We started the hours and hours of testing come January. Three testing sessions with the OT. Three testing sessions with the speech therapist - well, the English speech therapist. Three testing sessions with the learning specialist. Two sessions with the school psychologist. And, just because I am a bit of a glutton, one long session with the Spanish speech therapist. All in all - we are talking well over 7 hours of testing... of a five year old. This doesn't even include all the classroom observation time.
Through all of this, I was sure that Sam would be placed in the inclusion classroom.
I filled out his options forms as if this was a foregone conclusion.
I walked into his IEP meeting this morning unconcerned and confident of the result.
And then - BAM! Sam was not offered the inclusion program. Instead, he was offered a "special day class" for "mild to moderate" kids. He was not going to be mainstreamed. He was not going to be placed in a neighborhood school.
I am still a bit in shock from all of this - and trying to figure out what my next move is. I am not sure I agree with the assessment, but want to make sure whatever decision I make is the right one for Sam. I would hate to fight for him to be in the inclusion program if he really isn't ready - just as much as I would hate to accept his placement in the special classroom if he is at a higher level.
I knew advocating for Sam was going to be difficult at times. I just didn't think this was going to be part of it!